Ask yourself, do you usually masturbate in the same way? Most guys respond yes, when you’re on a good thing stick to it. Many state they have one or a couple of techniques that suit their ability to complete the task at hand. So, you’ve got your favourite way to arrive at the destination; but what makes your style different from other men? Why is it your go-to satisfaction technique?
The Perfect Angle
The mathematics of masturbation are probably not what you’re thinking about when doing the business. But perfect pitch is a large contributor in getting the sweet position to orgasming the way you like.
Generally, most men hit that sweet spot at the 45° to 90° angle. That’s why most men are laying on their backs or sitting down when masturbating. It’s all in the angle. Any more than 90° is too extreme or painful for most men.
Getting the most from Self-Play
Everyone knows that exercise is good for the body and mind. Working the body releases endorphins allowing for those “sweet sensations”. So does a little self-play.
That’s right, a little self-play is a great way to turn yourself on, relieve stress, provide for better quality sleep and release that pent-up sexual tension. The health benefits are numerous and it’s also a lot of fun.
We know that you’ve probably got your own special way to achieve the masturbation outcome you desire but, let’s spice things up a little. C’mon let’s go!
Self-play doesn’t need to be a quick tug and run. Set yourself up for self-exploration.
You can set the mood by:
• Being in the here and now
• Teasing yourself
• Getting the right room ambience (light a candle, the right music, scent the room)
• Enjoy your favourite erotic movie
You’ve got your favourite position, now let’s change to add to the experience. Different positions can reveal different sensations which can lead to brown chicken, brown cow.
|Standard Position||Changed Position|
|Stand||Lean against the wall|
|Any||On all fours|
You don’t have to be in a rush, unless that’s your thing. Bucks Fizz it! Speed it up, then slow it down. Stroke it to the rhythm or touch yourself. Take the time to discover what alternatives you like. Hands, strokes toys or more.
By changing hands, you may discover a different sensation leading to a more intense ejaculation. Discovering you can lead to a better, richer orgasm. Try this for something different: press your penis against your stomach and using your “other” hand stroke the underside of your shaft.
Gyrating or thrusting your hips can also assist with intensity. Try using a circular or back-and-forth motion or whatever takes your fancy increasing speed as you get closer.
Hand-up-hand-down may be the tried and tested but long twisting strokes form base to tip or rubbing the knob is a great way to experiment to a better stroke a or pleasure outcome.
Don’t forget the balls have almost as many nerve endings as the penis. Try pulling down on your balls right before you come.
The perineum (the bit between your balls and ass) can be a real page-turner for some guys so touch it softly or massage it while stroking.
Rub, pull, pinch, squeeze or tug your body’s other erogenous areas like your ears, neck, mouth, lips and nipples to get a real self-love buzz.
What, you’ve never been introduced to the male G-spot? The prostate (about the size of a walnut) is a gland located between the bladder and rectum. If you’ve never experienced this intense full-body experience, now’s the time.
Healthline suggest, starting off slowly rubbing the outside and inside of your anal opening, then insert your finger gradually to massage your prostate. Increase the speed and motion as the pleasure builds until you’re ready to finish.
If using your finger doesn’t sound like you, try some great anal toys on the market. Don’t be shy, it’s about getting to know you. According to a pleasure product company, prostate massager sales have increased by 56% over the past 5 years. In fact, there are some very popular men’s sex toys such as fleshlights and pocket strokers, prostate stimulators and anal beads to e-stimulation devices. Check these out!
Enjoying yourself and have a little time? Orgasm control, stop-and-start or edging, extends the pleasure so that by the time you’re ready it can be a longer more explosive experience. Enjoy yourself by approaching orgasm and then stopping completely. Then start slowly again to the getting to the same point. You can go until you can’t take it no more.
Enjoy discovering yourself, enjoy your body and take the time to learn what really turns your self-play sessions into a healthy way to come and enjoy the health benefits.